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"Parents located in the northern part of London seeks an exceptional and skilled tutor to support their most junior child on his initial journey to becoming an English gentleman."

When reading this post, you might easily skip the phrase "beginning" as mere a turn of phrase.

But, it could be the crucial part of this unusual employment listing, as it seeks to hire a mentor for a infant.

Numerous of submissions have now been received since the anonymous family posted their request for the highly paid tutor, who must be "an exceptional individual".

During the past few weeks, the listing has received interest across the media, with numerous wondering why?

Progressive Approach

Adam Caller, CEO and founder of a global tutoring firm, which is supporting the family in their quest, said that despite early skepticism, he viewed the plan "far sighted", and "progressive".

When he met the family, he noted they recognized the unusual nature of their demand, and how young their son is.

But, they stated that they "didn't want to wait any longer" to hire a tutor, as they had postponed until their firstborn was five, and by that stage "cultural conditioning had already taken hold".

But what did the family indicate by "cultural bias"?

It's "everything", the expert answered. "The way you eat, the way you speak".

He explained the firstborn had adopted "extremely delicate, non-verbal cues" from the family, and had assumed their cultural ways. The family informed the consultant they wished to avoid the same situation to recur with their new baby.

The intention: To hire a British tutor, who needs to speak with RP, to shape the baby right from the beginning.

Osmotic Learning

"A lot of the learning at the start here is kind of acquired indirectly," said the CEO.

It's via this osmosis that the family are aiming the child will adopt the British traits they wish to cultivate.

Adam said the tutor needed to be an individual who studied at "the right kinds of schools – similar types of schools as the family hope to send their son to".

"The tutor must be the right kind of person, they'll be carrying out things they may not realize they're doing, effortlessly," he commented.

Expense Not a Factor

The family informed him the selected educator should ideally also have understanding of or interest in horse riding, skiing, creative fields and music so as to inspire the child in a diverse set of passions.

More than that though, he stated the family desired the tutor to enrol the child on a variety of lessons so the child would be "pony-riding and starting an instrument by the time they are about three years old".

In the family's minds, assisting their son develop into a "British gentleman" will bring about achievement and open doors.

"For all the rights and wrongs of that, because it's undoubtedly a class statement," he adds.

However, despite all this tutelage in "English culture", would the child pick up alleged cultural bias from the multicultural family he lives with anyway?

"Certainly", answered Adam. "The parents realize this may not work, but they've merely embraced the perspective of, 'why not attempt it and let's go as quickly as we can', because the cost of it is not a concern," he said.

Idealistic and Unrealistic

There are some in the private teaching field who share these concerns.

An education leader, head and founder of an educational organization, who provides individual instructors, commented that "the journey of embracing two identities, or indeed, discovering oneself, is something that must be experienced personally, not designed."

He wrote that he had emigrated from Asia to the UK at the age of childhood, and had been brought up experiencing and practicing both cultures. He went on to learn at a prestigious UK institution.

"The notion that one individual can function as a embodiment of English culture, an individual who can possibly impart the qualities of a English gentleman onto a one-year-old child, seems to me idealistic and impractical," he stated.

"From my perspective, employing a typically English tutor from infancy will does not instantly achieve the result they want.

"I never had such a tutor, and however I have been lucky enough to enjoy numerous of the situations they hope for their son."

He added: "The fact is, personal identity can not be forced from the outside; it must be selected, and it must originate internally."

Acquiring Englishness

Of course, Britishness is something the CEO thinks can be educated – and marketed.

"In my view the fact that the world holds us in this regard is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating